Kraft paper book covers

I thought that was… paper. Thin, wrinkled paper. But it was the wall.

Like one of those chairs that look deceptively comfortable. But when you sit on them, you’d say, “Oh, it’s made of plastic.”

This paper looking wall reminded me of the Kraft paper my grandma used to buy for me. He used them to make covers for my text books and notebooks, so that my books would remain as tidy as possible.

After putting on the cover, my grandpa would use a blue pen, write my name and class number on the cover in perfect Chinese calligraphy.

Some children used to take pride in having tidy textbooks with no rolled-up corners. And I was one of them. It showed how much I took care of those books. With neatly written notes on every page in different colours, my books told people how much I was learning, how much thoughts I got from those pages.

I was a proud kid in school for most of the years.

But I was not proud because of having a well-used and tidy textbook collection. I was proud because my parents and grandparents were proud of my exemplary textbooks and my good scores.

And putting on the Kraft paper cover is the first step of getting there. It’s the ritual towards a deep dive into that book and some learning experience and results that would make my family proud.

This first step is serious, solemn, full of hope and loaded with expectation.

It’s one of my favourite school memories.

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Mothers Are Taken For Granted, Everywhere

I’m not exaggerating. They are.

If they show affection to their children, they are “clingy”; if they become strict once in a while, they are being “bitchy”.

If they care for other members, they are “too selfless” and “lost themselves”; if they pursue their career, they are “not nurturing enough to be a mother”.

They get a flower once a year on Mother’s Day. Or twice. One more flower on their birthday. “Thank you, mom!” You say, while you know doing this is “because it’s what people do” other than thanking her.

If your mother is like mine, she’s always there.

She’s there cheering for you if you are doing well.

She’s there calming you down if you are upset.

She’s there cleaning up your mess if you never clean up by yourself.

She’s there hugging you when you, well, simply need a hug.

And more often than not, moms are also kiss-givers.

If yours is not, she might just give you kisses in other ways, like praises, smiles, or good food.

Yes, she’s ALWAYS there.

And that’s it! That’s the reason why it’s easy for you to take her for granted.

BECAUSE she’s always there. She’s like the oxygen in the air. You will for damn sure notice when she’s not there.

She might be controlling. And the only thing you want to do when you are young is to get out of that control.

But you know what? When the control suddenly stops, you don’t feel free.

You feel lost.

So please, stop taking your mom for granted if she’s still there.

Today, right now. It’s not too late.