Giving makes you happier than gaining and taking from others. That’s probably why becoming the parents who take care of their children makes themselves happier people.
To create is to lead. It’s to start something new, go down a new path for the first time, where nobody else has set foot on. (The Practice, Seth Godin)
That’s a scenario where being a leader doesn’t require having followers.
Therefore, creating something that’s your own and sharing what you made to the world will make you a fulfilled, and happy person who leads her own life.
Can you think of what you want to do exactly to achieve this? Something worth thinking about.
But be mindful: there’s only “want to”, no “ought to”.