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If you are lucky, like me, you have one or two people in your life who you know that you can always turn to no matter what happens. We see this type of connection a lot in the movies, TVs, literature… most of media has a huge library of materials depicting how great these friendships…
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I’ve been struggling with sticking to schedules for all my life. All my plans stuck at the second day of execution. The truth is, the goal setting and the planning parts are usually ok. I stopped setting my goals too high when I was in kindergarten (like “getting up at 6 am and doing my…
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I know there are many people want to start doing something online by building up a great website, choosing a catchy name for the brand, and oh, spend a lot of time and money on branding. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. In fact, traffic comes in this way and the production can surely come…
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You are mistaken. What you think you love is actually about yourself. Which is not a bad thing. How did I find that out? I know how I feel when I listen to a song, say “Closing Time”. When I listened to it with the person I love sitting next to me, I felt so…
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After practicing mindfulness for a year (I’ve tried different methods to keep myself balanced and focused, this is the only one that stuck with me), I’m finally able to save myself a lot of stress in a anxiety-full situation using meditation technics. In urgent cases as such, the ability to press the “pause” button is…
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December, Frankfurt train station. It was a typical early afternoon in a pre-Christmas Germany city. On the small Christmas market next to the train station, some people were standing around a little wood cabin selling heart-shaped ginger bread, drinking mulled wine. Not far from the Christmas market, steam was coming out from the ground floor…
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Are there people around you who behave in a way, like as if they have already figured everything out? Your parents were used to be like that in your head. Maybe. Until one day you realise that they are far from super smart and wise than you thought. Or some older and more sophisticated friends.…
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This morning, I woke up, feeling stressed, dreadful, and distracted. It’s not what anybody wants — in a morning when it’s sunny, birds chirping outside of your window… Good start of the day — it shouldn’t be so hard. “If now I’m going back to sleep, I will have nothing else but nightmare.” I thought.…
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Out of the night that covers me, Black as the pit from pole to pole, I thank whatever gods may be For my unconquerable soul. In the fell clutch of circumstance I have not winced nor cried aloud. Under the bludgeoning of chance My head is bloody, but unbowed. Beyond this place of wrath and…
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恐惧是可怕的。 但是迷惑更是。 已经很久没有勇敢面对过自己的真心。原来，自己成为这样的人也是有根源的。 因为我的父母从来没有勇气对我表达足以致痛的实情。 为了逃避自己的难过，以及想要面对可能残酷现实的好奇心，我来到瑞士的雪山之中。 身在雪山之巅，俯瞰周边绿绿的树林与村落，我想的却一直是，我该带我的家人好好来这里看一看。 我要努力，要让他们来欧洲好好看看。这个世界有多大，这里有多美。 而回去，就是要面对一定会来的事实。而我，却是如此胆小。我的怯懦，则都是从我的家庭教育中得来的。以爱的名义（也是因为真的爱吧）欺瞒着别人。其实也都是非常自私的表现。 逃避的确是我最擅长的了。可是不管怎样选择逃避，这件事是没有时间让我逃避的。 在这里还有两天。我会好好告诉我的家人，我去了那里，和谁在一起。但是我也要一个真相。这么久了，这么多痛苦，怀疑，回忆和眼泪。我也算值得了一个真相。不论那是一颗可以放下的心，或者是一场即将到来的恶战。他们应该相信我。他们不该总是想保护我，就将我与险恶的现实尝试着隔离。这样的结果不过是让我更加难过，更加痛苦而已。 好与坏，总是要面对。尤其是和别人有关的。欺瞒，就不是对的爱的方式吧。爱是保护，但也应该是相信。爱应该是，为了爱对方，而更加好好爱自己。有心享受爱的愉悦，也要知道我们都要承受爱的责任与随之而来的严肃与不可逃避的痛苦。爱是尊重。 不要怕。一切都还不晚。 30 Days Writing Challenge – Day 7
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